Lovers And Sex Guide - 46 - Body Massage - And Squirting Orgasms [portable]

The Ultimate Lovers and Sex Guide: Unlocking the Secrets of Body Massage and Squirting Orgasms

As we continue on our journey to explore the depths of human intimacy, we find ourselves at a critical juncture where connection, communication, and physical pleasure converge. In this, the 46th installment of our Lovers and Sex Guide series, we delve into the transformative world of body massage and the elusive yet achievable realm of squirting orgasms. These two facets of sexual exploration can significantly enhance the quality of your intimate relationships, fostering a deeper sense of trust, understanding, and, of course, pleasure. The Ultimate Lovers and Sex Guide: Unlocking the

Part 7: Resources to Deepen Your Practice

  • Book: The Lovers’ Guide Illustrated (2008) – classic diagrams for sacral and heart-centered touch.
  • Video: The Lovers’ Guide: Massage for Lovers (streaming on some educational platforms) – skip the 90s fashion, focus on the breathing techniques.
  • Podcast: Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy (episodes on “Touch as Emotional Language”).
  • Workshop: Look for “Tantric Massage for Couples” classes – but ensure they emphasize consent over mysticism.

Preparation is Key

Before you start, create a peaceful and comfortable environment. This includes: Book: The Lovers’ Guide Illustrated (2008) – classic

  • Dimming the lights
  • Playing soothing music
  • Ensuring the room is at a comfortable temperature
  • Using a massage oil or lotion to reduce friction and allow your hands to glide smoothly over the skin

Arc 1: “The Rediscovery” – After distance or routine

  • Opening scene: One partner feels unseen. The other initiates a surprise 10-minute hand and forearm massage while watching a movie together.
  • Rising action: Over a week, massage lengthens to 20 minutes, including shoulders and scalp. The receiving partner starts to initiate touch back.
  • Climax (emotional): A full 40-minute massage where the giving partner whispers one specific thing they’ve missed (e.g., “The way you sigh when I touch your neck”).
  • Resolution: The couple creates a “Sunday reset” massage ritual. No sex required – just reconnection.

Full-Body Sensual Massage (to build relaxation and arousal)

  1. Begin with calming breath work: synchronize breathing for a few minutes to increase connection.
  2. Start with light strokes: use palms and forearms along the back, shoulders, and limbs to warm up.
  3. Gradually increase pressure: knead trapezius, shoulder blades, and lower back; use thumbs for slow, circular motions.
  4. Include glute and thigh work: long, gliding strokes on outer thighs; compress-and-release for glutes to release tension.
  5. Pay attention to the inner thighs and lower abdomen: these areas are highly sensual—use gentle, teasing strokes.
  6. Neck, ears, and scalp: finish with sensitive slow touches—light fingertip tracing, gentle scalp massage.
  7. Integrate erogenous zones gradually: nipples, inner arms, lower belly—watch for positive responses and avoid rushing.

Tips:

  • Keep movements slow and unhurried.
  • Use varying pressure and textures (palm, knuckle, fingertips) to maintain interest.
  • Warm the oil in your hands first.